Parents as Partners
Resources for Parents and Teachers
Welcome to
Parents As Partners!
A website for parents and teachers who want to help their children.
When parents are involved with their children
- Grades improve
- Behavior improves
- Motivation increases
- School attendance goes up
Each new school year is always a
brand new adventure. Everyone is excited and probably a
little nervous. What will my child’s new teacher be like? Will my
child be successful in their new class? How can I help my child be
successful through out the year? These may be just a few questions you
are asking as your child moves forward in their school career. We hope
you will take a few minutes to read this article. We believe it will
give a couple of ideas on how you can help your child have a successful
start to their new school year. You will also find ideas on how to
develop a productive and positive relationship with your child’s
teacher. We look forward to having you visit our site often. We will
be featuring many of the outstanding events happening at schools
throughout Kern County.
This is a Brand New Year
One
of the first steps to beginning a successful year is to remember this
is a new year and with the new school year comes the opportunity for a
brand new beginning. This is an excellent time to review and
reevaluate regular routines and implement new strategies to help your
child become successful at all areas of getting ready for and
participating in their schooling.
The school year does not have to be filled with arguments
over completing homework or in debates over bedtime rules. While
charts and homework schedules are a good idea, they work best when
parents clearly communicate what is expected. It then becomes very
important to follow through on those expectations and, if necessary,
become a broken record by continuing to repeat the expectations when
the debates start. It is important to talk about the homework rules
and the daily routines before school starts and most important to
enforce these rules consistently.
Children will often reflect
the attitude of the parents when it comes to completing projects and
other homework assignments. It is very important that parents keep a
positive attitude to help encourage their child to do their very best.
Emphasizing homework as an opportunity to learn or an opportunity to
show their teachers what they know is a much better approach than
focusing on the idea that
homework is something the child “has to do.”
Start
now and make plans, set expectations and communicate these with your
child. One thing you can count on is that there will be a variety of
surprises and unexpected events that pop-up from time to time. Be
ready and think ahead to what different situations may arise and be
prepared for any of those surprises. Talk early to your child’s
teacher and develop a plan on the best way to talk with the teacher
whether it be through some kind of notebook, telephone calls, or
through email. Most teachers are very eager to have a way to regularly
talk with parents to help each of their students achieve success.
Preparing Children for Their New Adventure
Children
may become very nervous or anxious as the new school year starts.
Particularly as they start a new grade or have moved to a new school.
You as the parent can truly help ease your child into their new
situation by helping them feel prepared for the new situation. If your
child walks to school or rides their bike,
then walk or
ride the route with them. If they ride the bus, show your child where
the bus stop is and make sure they know the schedule. Also, make sure
your child understands how to find the bus after school. Remind them
where they are to go after school, whether it is home, to an after
school program, or to a babysitter. The new school year also presents
your child with a variety of whole new situations, some will be
pleasant and some will be difficult. Think ahead to what difficult
situations may occur, such as making new friends, and talk with your
child about ways to deal with these situations before they occur. The
important thing to remember is that your child needs to know they are
supported by you, their parent.
Get Involved in Your Child’s Education
Teachers
are always very excited about meeting their new students and the new
parents. When the school day ends for the students, teachers may just
be beginning as they prepare for future lessons or meet with other
teachers. It is always best to make an appointment to meet with your
child’s teacher to introduce yourself and let them know you are there
to support your child’s learning. Taking time to meet and introduce
yourself and your child to the Principal is also a way to let your
child know there are other adults on campus there to help your child.
These are especially good ideas to use if your child has special needs
or if the family may be going through difficult times such as divorce,
an illness or death of family member, or a recent or pending move.
Find
ways to get involved more with your child’s education. Schools provide
a variety of ways for parents and other adults to volunteer time at the
school to help in many activities. Simple activities like listening to
other students to read can be extremely valuable for many students who
may not have anyone to listen to them. Even with very busy schedules,
parents can make a real difference in their child’s education by
encouraging them to talk about their day and by listening to the child
explain the highlights. This sends the message that you value their
education and provides an opportunity for children to use language they
are learning in school.
No Child Left Behind (NCLB)
has made standardized test more important than ever. California has
developed standards for every grade level and most schools have
developed parent handouts or brochures to help parents know what their
child will be expected to do by the end of their grade level. By
taking time to talk with your child’s teacher about the standards,
parents can gain valuable information on what the teacher plans to
teach and develop ideas on how to help their child at home in
developing the skills they will need to be successful. Playing rhyming
games with young children and by encouraging more advanced readers to
discuss what they have read is a great way to help your child develop
their reading and comprehension skills. Many of these kinds of reading
games and activities can be fun and very rewarding to do with your
children. Ask your child’s teacher for more ideas that can be done to
better help your child.
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